From the start, when I've done shopping for my parents (generally twice a week), I've taken it into their house and we've chatted - at +2m distance - for 15-30 mins. On occasion, the kids have accompanied me.
Most weeks, they've also visited our house once a week and parked up. My dad gets out of his car ad stands, my mum stays in sat down. We all maintain a safe distance and have a chat. The last 3 weeks, my dad has also come to collect our dog and take it back to theirs for a few hours.
Last Friday when they visited, I suggested they come through to the back garden and we all spent a good hour chatting - again, all at safe distance. My dad had a pint and my mum a cuppa.
I know some of the above is, strictly speaking, against the 'rules' and it will nudge up the risk factor - although from nil to negligible.
There has to be a balance between staying safe and trying to maintain some of the things in life that sustain you emotionally.
You know what Saint! I think that’s a simple case of common sense and if everyone is honest, most will be doing the same!
If my parents were alive, I’d be doing exactly the same and my kids are doing it with us. They usually bring shopping but only because I can always find something I want, though not necessarily need. But I always want to see them! I can put up with not having a hug now. It creased me to begin with but at least I can see them.
We’re pushing boundaries but to safe limits. It’s no different from being in a supermarket with other people, in fact it’s much safer! I am quite sure the powers that be know we’re all doing this but turn a blind eye and I think they expected it.
If they’d allowed this from the beginning, we’d have pushed the boundaries, as we do, even further and into unsafe territory. Yes, we’ve seen the media reports! Some are pushing beyond safe limits, the few not using common sense and imagine how much further they’d go given a chance!
I really do think it’s about using your noddle!
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