I'm still alive and was living in the SE in 1947 (Orpington), 1963 (CambrIdge) and 1987 (Maidstone). On the last occasion, I had to go and escort my wife home from the boarding school where she was teaching in deeply rural country near Maidstone in a blizzard. We walked for a mile-and-a-half in vile conditions, but I still think that it didn't compare to some days in 1963 (and in 1947 I was only five years old so was probably being kept inside in the worst of the weather). But 1987 in Kent at least didn't last more than a couple of weeks unlike the other winters.
Trevor Harley gives lowest lowest daytime maxes winter by winter since 1900;
https://www.trevorharley.com/coldest-days-of-each-winter-from-1900.html
and the lowest overnight minima since at least 1880 from Torro may be of interest;
https://www.torro.org.uk/extremes/date-records/min-temp
Date records for lowest daytime max, annually by winter, if these occurred in the SE
-18.8 Swarraton (Hants.) 9 January 1901
-16.8 Woodbridge (Suffolk) 30 December 1906
-18.3 Liphook (Hants.) 30 December 1908
-20.0 Benson (Oxon) 6 February 1917
-17.2 Woburn (Beds.) 9 February 1919
-21.1 Elmstone (Kent) 30 January 1947
-13.3 Grendon Underwood (Bucks.) 12 December 1991
-14.5 Santon Downham (Suffolk) 3 January 1997
Date records for lowest minima if these occurred in the SE
19/1/1966 -18.9 Elmstone
23/1/1963 -20.6 Stanstead Abbotts, Herts (that day none of the rural buses into Cambridge ran if they'd been parked outside - the diesel had frozen!)
29/1/1947 -20.6 Writtle, Essex
30/1/1947 -21.3 Elmstone
6/2/1917 -20.0 Benson, Oxon
25/2/1947 -20.6 Woburn, Beds
10/3/1931 -15.0 Rickmansworth, Herts
https://www.torro.org.uk/extremes/date-records/min-temp
Originally Posted by: DEW